Send a Sext

Heat things up with suggestive messages.
Interrupt work with an alluring pic or initiate
amorous text conversations in public.

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Get Rid of the Tech

Go screen-free so the only thing
that has your partner's eyes is
the show you're putting on live.

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Offer the Unexpected

Initiate some suggestive stroking in a public place, or
greet your partner at home in something enticingly
revealing. Request a play-by-play of how the evening
should go before you proceed for sexy suggestions.

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There's an App for That

Try Kindu, packed with sexy ideas and a comfortable
format that only tells you which ones your partner is also
up for. No awkwardness and tons of suggestions.

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Enlist a Friend

If you're nervous about broaching an intimate topic,
practice with a friend. Speaking with
a love psychic can also help.

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Initiate Abstinence

Making something forbidden can make it irresistible.
Put a week-long ban on physical intimacy and watch
the intensity explode when the time is up.

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Read a Naughty Novel

Read aloud from something extremely erotic. Not only will
you light a spark in the bedroom, you'll come up with
some fresh ideas for how to extinguish it.

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Pamper Yourself

When you feel sexy and confident, you exude undeniable
sex appeal. Feeling attractive won't just turn your partner
on, it will help you warm up too.

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Play a Game

Get playful with your partner, tickling, wrestling, or
exploring some scantily-clad sports. Get your blood
flowing, release some of the tension, and create a
lighter, flirtier mood.

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Release Your Tensions

If you're having trouble getting in the mood, other
stressors may be holding you back. Try talking to a
psychic to identify blockages so you can approach sex
freely and comfortably.

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Get Creative With Card

Turn your favorite card game into an.
opportunity for intimacy. The winner
chooses their favorite sex act.

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Play Hot and Cold

Think about a part of your body and give your partner
“hotter” and “colder” hints as he or she kisses through
the clues.

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Truth or Dare

Heat up this game by ruling that your truths must relate
to sexy secrets and your dares are exclusive to acts in
the bedroom.

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Mirror, Mirror

Take turns touching your partner the way you'd like to be
touched, and mirror each other's behavior as you explore
kissing, licking, and massaging in new ways.

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Strip Twister

Play a game of Twister together and remove a piece of
clothing every time you fall. See how many rounds you
can stand to go once you're both naked.

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